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Everyone has a different understanding of who should be their friend and what that relationship should mean to them, but have you ever thought about this one question: “Who Is My True Friend?”

Is it that person who always gives us their study material and helps in our presentations, or is it that one guy with whom we enjoy the most or is it that girl who listens to us every time we seem to be having a problem? Well, to be true, all of our friends are special and we share a particular type of bond with many people who come in the bracket of friendship. But according to me, that one person who actually gives you what you need the most at that particular time is your true friend.

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Not always are we ready to hang out, and not always are we in the mood for going about on a philosophical rant about what life means. Every human has different aspects in their personality and those specialties come out at different times. It is during those times that we can decide who truly is our true friend. Whether it is our kindergarten buddy, or our high school pal or our college friend or our colleague or a neighbor or even a cousin or sibling and even parents for that matter; whoever supports us and gives us what we need at that time is worthy of being our sweetheart buddy. You may wonder how can someone understand so much that they exactly give what we need, but this becomes possible by the unconditional love that they have for us. A true friend will selflessly give you what you need and if you are able to understand the love that they have for you and you too are able to give that kind of affection to them, then that friendship is sealed to be a truly beautiful one.

There are times in our life when we need the motivation to keep going on, or we need to celebrate our victory or mourn a loss, or even times, when we need some personal space so as to understand more about ourselves. The people who can give you all of this, yes even your personal space, are your true friends. Technically speaking, the essence of friendships don’t really propagate the belief that a friend should leave you alone at any time, but there are phases in our life when we actually need just that. If people around you can understand this and give you even this, then my friend, you are a lucky chap.

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Keep such treasures close to your heart, because if a friend can do this for you, then he can do anything for you. You will meet a lot of people who will spend money on you and will make your parties rocking enough, but people who understand you will rarely come your way. If you can identify them in time, then you can be rest assured that you have what you need, from yourself as well as from your TRUE BEST FRIEND!

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